New Heart English Bible
1Do not rebuke an older man, but exhort him as a father; the younger men as brothers; 2the older women as mothers; the younger as sisters, in all purity.
3Honor widows who are widows indeed. 4But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them learn first to show piety towards their own family, and to repay their parents, for this is acceptable in the sight of God. 5Now she who is a widow indeed, and desolate, has her hope set on God, and continues in petitions and prayers night and day. 6But she who gives herself to pleasure is dead while she lives. 7Also command these things, that they may be without reproach. 8But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.
9Let no one be enrolled as a widow under sixty years old, having been the wife of one man, 10being approved by good works, if she has brought up children, if she has been hospitable to strangers, if she has washed the saints' feet, if she has relieved the afflicted, and if she has diligently followed every good work. 11But refuse younger widows, for whenever their passions lead them away from Christ, they desire to marry; 12having condemnation, because they have rejected their first pledge. 13Besides, they also learn to be idle, going about from house to house. Not only idle, but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not. 14I desire therefore that the younger widows marry, bear children, rule the household, and give no occasion to the adversary for reviling. 15For already some have turned aside after Satan. 16If any believing man or believing woman has widows, let them assist them, and do not let the church be burdened; that it might help those widows who are truly in need.
17Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honor, especially those who labor in the word and in teaching. 18For the Scripture says, "Do not muzzle the ox when it treads out the grain." And, "The laborer is worthy of his wages." 19Do not receive an accusation against an elder, except at the word of two or three witnesses. 20Those who sin, reprove in the sight of all, that the rest also may be in fear. 21I command you in the sight of God, and Christ Jesus, and the chosen angels, that you observe these things without prejudice, doing nothing by partiality. 22Lay hands hastily on no one, neither be a participant in other men's sins. Keep yourself pure.
23Be no longer a drinker of water only, but use a little wine for your stomach's sake and your frequent infirmities.