Moderation
Proverbs 23:1-3
When you sit to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before you:…


This virtue the people of God ought to practise in everything. They should exercise self-government in the desire, the use, the enjoyment, and the regret of all that pertains to the present world. Here is commended laying restraint on the animal appetites.

1. There are few things, if any, more disgusting and degrading than the studied and anxious indulgence of these appetites. It is particularly loathsome when the man appears to catch with extraordinary avidity the occurrence of a feast, and to be resolved on making the most of his opportunity.

2. There are on such occasions temptations to over-indulgence and excess. And then our self-jealousy and watchfulness should be proportioned to two things — the strength of propensity and the amount of temptation. Eat as if a knife were at thy throat. Eat in the recollection and impression of thine imminent danger. Or the expression may mean, "Otherwise thou wilt put a knife to thy throat if thine appetite have the dominion."

3. A man's conduct on such occasions is marked, especially if he be a religious professor. He may in this way bring reproach upon religion, which ever ought, and which, when genuine and duly felt, will impose a restraint on such indulgences.

4. We should also be on our guard against the ostentation of abstinence and plainness — the affectation of extraordinary abstemiousness.

5. There should be special vigilance if there be reason to suspect any snare, any intended temptation for answering a selfish or malicious purpose. Worldly men sometimes do, very wickedly, lay snares for the godly.

(R. Wardlaw, D.D.)



Parallel Verses
KJV: When thou sittest to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before thee:

WEB: When you sit to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before you;




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