The Desire of Kindness
Proverbs 19:22
The desire of a man is his kindness: and a poor man is better than a liar.


In the Revised Version this sentence reads, "The desire of a man is the measure of his kindness." The Divine rule of weights and measures is the only true one in the sphere of man's duties and obligations. But a principle, however good, must not be strained. A man's kindness is in his heart, not in the measure of the gifts themselves. The hand may be liberal, whilst the heart is illiberal. A desire to do good is a Divine emanation. A desire must be content to go as far as it can, and to do as much as it can. When that limit is reached, we must not. be ashamed of doing so little. The desire to be kind is worth cherishing, because it does not always survive the changes in our circumstances. The desire often diminishes in exact proportion to the increase of means and opportunities for doing good. Where our desire to be kind fails through incapacity to do more, God will add what is necessary. The desire to be kind sometimes needs educating. It is not so large as it should be, because it is narrowed by ignorance or want of thought about the responsibilities of wealth. When will men study as earnestly how to use what they have got together as they studied and toiled to get it together?

(Thomas Wilde.)



Parallel Verses
KJV: The desire of a man is his kindness: and a poor man is better than a liar.

WEB: That which makes a man to be desired is his kindness. A poor man is better than a liar.




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