1 Samuel 20:23
And as for the matter you and I have discussed, the LORD is a witness between you and me forever."
And as for the matter you and I have discussed,

David and Jonathan had made private arrangements to determine Saul’s intentions and protect David from danger. Their agreement rested on loyalty despite Saul’s growing hostility toward David.

Gen 31:44-46 Come now, let us make a covenant, you and I…
1Sa 23:18 So the two of them made a covenant before the LORD.…
Jos 24:25-27 On that day Joshua made a covenant for the people…

the LORD is a witness

They called upon God to hold them accountable for their promises and to judge any breach of faith.

Mal 2:14 Yet you ask, “Why?” It is because the LORD has been a witness…
Jer 42:5 Then they said to Jeremiah, “May the LORD be a true witness…
Gen 31:50 If you mistreat my daughters or take other wives,…

between you and me

Their covenant was personal and binding, not merely a political alliance. Jonathan chose faithfulness to David even when it placed him at odds with his father.

Gen 31:49 It was also called Mizpah, because Laban said,…
Gen 16:5 Sarai said to Abram, “May the wrong done to me be upon you!”…
1Sa 24:12 May the LORD judge between you and me, and may the LORD…

forever.”

Their commitment would remain in force beyond their separation and extend to their descendants, preserving peace between Jonathan’s house and David’s future kingdom.

Psa 89:28-29 I will forever preserve My loving devotion for him,…
Gen 17:7 I will establish My covenant as an everlasting covenant…
Isa 55:3 Incline your ear and come to Me; listen,…

Persons / Places / Events
1. David
The future king of Israel, anointed by Samuel, and a man after God's own heart. At this point, he is fleeing from King Saul, who seeks to kill him.

2. Jonathan
The son of King Saul and a close friend of David. He is known for his loyalty to David and his faithfulness to God.

3. The LORD
The covenant-keeping God of Israel, who is invoked as a witness to the covenant between David and Jonathan.

4. The Covenant
A solemn agreement between David and Jonathan, ensuring mutual protection and loyalty, with God as their witness.

5. Ramah
The place where David fled to seek refuge with Samuel, and where part of the events leading to this covenant took place.
Teaching Points
The Importance of Godly Friendships
David and Jonathan's relationship exemplifies the strength and importance of friendships rooted in faith and mutual respect.

Covenant Loyalty
The covenant between David and Jonathan highlights the significance of loyalty and faithfulness in relationships, with God as the ultimate witness.

God as a Witness
Invoking God as a witness in agreements underscores the seriousness and sacredness of our commitments.

Trust in God's Sovereignty
Despite the danger David faced, the covenant with Jonathan and the invocation of God as a witness reflect a deep trust in God's sovereign plan.

Enduring Promises
The eternal nature of the covenant between David and Jonathan reminds us of the enduring promises of God to His people.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does the friendship between David and Jonathan challenge or inspire your own relationships with others?

2. In what ways can you incorporate God as a witness in your commitments and promises today?

3. How does the concept of covenant loyalty apply to your relationship with God and others?

4. Reflect on a time when you had to trust in God's sovereignty despite uncertain circumstances. How did that experience shape your faith?

5. How can the enduring nature of God's promises encourage you in your current life situation? Consider other biblical examples of God's faithfulness.
Connections to Other Scriptures
Genesis 31:49-50
The covenant between Laban and Jacob, where God is called as a witness to their agreement, similar to how God is a witness between David and Jonathan.

Proverbs 18:24
This verse speaks of a friend who sticks closer than a brother, reflecting the deep bond between David and Jonathan.

Hebrews 6:16-18
Discusses the unchangeable nature of God's promises, paralleling the enduring nature of the covenant between David and Jonathan.
A Friendly Prince a Princely FriendH. E. Stone.1 Samuel 20:1-42
David and JonathanW. G. Blaikie, D. D.1 Samuel 20:1-42
A Covenant of FriendshipB. Dale 1 Samuel 20:11-23
The Claims of FriendshipF. B. Meyer, B. A.1 Samuel 20:20-37
People
Abner, David, Jesse, Jonathan, Saul
Places
Bethlehem, Jerusalem, Naioth, Ramah
Topics
Age, Agreement, Behold, Discussed, Forever, Matter, Remember, Spoken, Talking, Touching, Witness
Dictionary of Bible Themes
1 Samuel 20:1-42

     5086   David, rise of

1 Samuel 20:18-23

     5206   archers

1 Samuel 20:18-34

     4476   meals

Library
Jonathan, the Pattern of Friendship
'And David fled from Naioth in Ramah, and came and said before Jonathan, What have I done? what is mine iniquity? and what is my sin before thy father, that he seeketh my life? 2. And he said unto him, God forbid; thou shalt not die: behold, my father will do nothing either great or small, but that he will shew it me: and why should my father hide this thing from me? it is not so. 3. And David sware moreover, and said, Thy father certainly knoweth that I have found grace in thine eyes; and he saith,
Alexander Maclaren—Expositions of Holy Scripture

A Word for the Persecuted
Remember that this supposition is a very likely one. There are a few Christians so favourably circumstanced that all their friends accompany them in the pilgrimage to heaven. What advances they ought to make in the sacred journey! What excellent Christians they ought to be! They are like plants in a conservatory--they ought to grow and bring forth the loveliest Bowers of divine grace. But there are not very many who are altogether in that case. The large proportion of Christians find themselves opposed
Charles Haddon Spurgeon—Spurgeon's Sermons Volume 20: 1874

How to Make Use of Christ for Steadfastness, in a Time when Truth is Oppressed and Borne Down.
When enemies are prevailing, and the way of truth is evil spoken of, many faint, and many turn aside, and do not plead for truth, nor stand up for the interest of Christ, in their hour and power of darkness: many are overcome with base fear, and either side with the workers of iniquity, or are not valiant for the truth, but being faint-hearted, turn back. Now the thoughts of this may put some who desire to stand fast, and to own him and his cause in a day of trial, to enquire how they shall make
John Brown (of Wamphray)—Christ The Way, The Truth, and The Life

Samuel
Alike from the literary and the historical point of view, the book[1] of Samuel stands midway between the book of Judges and the book of Kings. As we have already seen, the Deuteronomic book of Judges in all probability ran into Samuel and ended in ch. xii.; while the story of David, begun in Samuel, embraces the first two chapters of the first book of Kings. The book of Samuel is not very happily named, as much of it is devoted to Saul and the greater part to David; yet it is not altogether inappropriate,
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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