Philemon 1:20
Yes, brother, let me have some benefit from you in the Lord. Refresh my heart in Christ.
Yes, brother,

Paul appeals to Philemon as a fellow believer and spiritual family member, setting aside the social distance between an imprisoned apostle, a slave owner, and a returned slave.

2Th 3:15 Yet do not regard him as an enemy, but admonish him…
1Co 16:20 All the brothers here send you greetings.…
Heb 13:1 Continue in brotherly love.

let me have some benefit from you

Paul asks Philemon to respond favorably to Onesimus and to provide the help Paul has requested, turning a difficult situation into an act of Christian fellowship.

2Co 12:14 See, I am ready to come to you a third time…
Php 4:17 Not that I am seeking a gift, but I am looking for…
1Co 9:11 If we have sown spiritual seed among you, …

in the Lord.

Philemon’s response would serve Christ’s purposes, not merely Paul’s personal interests, because it concerned reconciliation within the church and the advance of the gospel.

Rom 16:2 Welcome her in the Lord in a manner worthy of the saints,…
Php 4:2 I urge Euodia and Syntyche to agree with each…
1Co 7:39 A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives.…

Refresh my heart in Christ.

Philemon had already strengthened other believers, and Paul asks him to bring the same encouragement by receiving Onesimus as a brother and supporting Paul’s work.

2Co 7:13 On account of this, we are encouraged…
Col 4:8 I have sent him to you for this very purpose,…
Php 2:1 Therefore if you have any encouragement in Christ,…

Persons / Places / Events
1. Paul
The apostle who authored the letter to Philemon, writing from prison. He is appealing to Philemon on behalf of Onesimus.

2. Philemon
A Christian leader and the recipient of the letter. He is a wealthy man who hosts a church in his home.

3. Onesimus
A runaway slave who has become a Christian and is now being sent back to Philemon by Paul.

4. The Church in Colossae
The broader community to which Philemon belongs, indicating the communal nature of early Christian life.

5. The Lord (Christ)
Central to the appeal, as Paul seeks to ground his request in their shared faith in Jesus.
Teaching Points
Christian Brotherhood
Paul addresses Philemon as "brother," emphasizing the familial bond among believers. This relationship transcends social and economic statuses, urging us to treat each other with love and respect.

Benefit in the Lord
The "benefit" Paul seeks is not material but spiritual, highlighting the importance of spiritual encouragement and support within the Christian community.

Refreshing Hearts
Just as Paul desires his heart to be refreshed, we are called to be sources of encouragement and renewal for others, reflecting Christ's love and grace.

Forgiveness and Reconciliation
The letter exemplifies the Christian call to forgive and reconcile, as Paul intercedes for Onesimus, urging Philemon to welcome him back not as a slave but as a brother in Christ.

Living Out Faith
Philemon is encouraged to demonstrate his faith through action, reminding us that our beliefs should be evident in how we treat others, especially those who have wronged us.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does Paul's relationship with Philemon and Onesimus illustrate the concept of Christian brotherhood?

2. In what ways can we "refresh" the hearts of fellow believers in our own communities?

3. How does the idea of receiving a "benefit in the Lord" challenge our understanding of what it means to support one another spiritually?

4. What steps can we take to practice forgiveness and reconciliation in our personal relationships, as Paul encourages Philemon to do with Onesimus?

5. How can we ensure that our faith is actively demonstrated in our daily interactions with others, particularly those who may have wronged us?
Connections to Other Scriptures
Galatians 6:10
This verse encourages believers to do good to all, especially to those in the household of faith, which aligns with Paul's request for Philemon to act benevolently towards Onesimus.

Matthew 11:28-30
Jesus invites those who are weary to find rest in Him, paralleling Paul's desire for Philemon to "refresh" his heart in Christ.

2 Corinthians 7:13
Paul speaks of being comforted by the joy of others, similar to his request for Philemon to bring him joy by accepting Onesimus.
A Plea for Personal ConsiderationT. Croskery Philemon 1:20
Christ the True Sphere of ActionA. Maclaren, D. D.Philemon 1:20
Provoked to Virtue by a Good ExampleR. Nisbet, D. D.Philemon 1:20
Personal ObligationW.M. Statham Philemon 1:19, 20
People
Apphia, Archippus, Aristarchus, Demas, Epaphras, Lucas, Luke, Marcus, Mark, Onesimus, Paul, Philemon, Timotheus, Timothy
Places
Colossae
Topics
Benefit, Bowels, Brother, Christ, Favour, Heart, Joy, Lord's, Profit, Refresh, Sake, Yea, Yes
Dictionary of Bible Themes
Philemon 1:20

     2224   Christ, the Lord
     5017   heart, renewal

Philemon 1:8-21

     5010   conscience, matters of
     7448   slavery, in NT

Philemon 1:10-21

     6682   mediation

Philemon 1:17-21

     6684   mediator

Library
The Epistles of the Captivity.
During his confinement in Rome, from a.d. 61 to 63, while waiting the issue of his trial on the charge of being "a mover of insurrections among all the Jews throughout the world, and a ringleader of the sect of the Nazarenes" (Acts 24:5), the aged apostle composed four Epistles, to the Colossians, Ephesians, Philemon, and Philippians. He thus turned the prison into a pulpit, sent inspiration and comfort to his distant congregations, and rendered a greater service to future ages than he could have
Philip Schaff—History of the Christian Church, Volume I

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