Philemon 1:9
I prefer to appeal on the basis of love. For I, Paul, am now aged, and a prisoner of Christ Jesus as well.
I prefer to appeal on the basis of love.

Though Paul possessed apostolic authority, he chose not to command Philemon. He appealed to the love and fellowship that should govern believers’ relationships, especially when reconciliation and forgiveness were needed.

2Co 8:8 I am not giving a command, but I am testing the sincerity…
2Co 2:4 For through many tears I wrote you out of great distress…
1Th 2:7-8 On the contrary, we were gentle among you…

For I, Paul, am now aged,

Paul’s advanced years and long service to Christ gave added weight to his request. In a culture that honored age and experience, his personal appeal called Philemon to respond with respect and compassion.

Pro 20:29 The glory of young men is their strength, and gray hair…
Pro 16:31 Gray hair is a crown of glory; it is attained…
1Ti 5:1 Do not rebuke an older man, but appeal to him…

and a prisoner of Christ Jesus as well.

Paul’s confinement was the result of his ministry for Christ. Though under house arrest in Rome, he regarded himself as belonging to Christ even in imprisonment, bound by his commitment to the Gospel. His suffering demonstrated the sincerity of the appeal he made on Onesimus’s behalf.

Eph 3:1 For this reason I, Paul, the prisoner of Christ Jesus…
Eph 4:1 As a prisoner in the Lord, then, I urge you to walk…
2Ti 1:8 So do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord,…

Persons / Places / Events
1. Paul
The apostle who authored the letter to Philemon. At this point, he is an older man and a prisoner for the sake of the Gospel.

2. Philemon
A Christian leader and the recipient of the letter. He is known for his love and faith toward Jesus and the saints.

3. Onesimus
A slave who belonged to Philemon and had run away. He became a Christian through Paul's ministry.

4. Rome
The place where Paul was imprisoned when he wrote this letter.

5. Colossae
The city where Philemon lived and where the church met in his home.
Teaching Points
Appeal on the Basis of Love
Paul chooses to appeal to Philemon out of love rather than authority. This teaches us the importance of love as a guiding principle in our interactions with others.

The Role of Humility
Paul, despite his apostolic authority, approaches Philemon with humility. This demonstrates the power of humility in leadership and relationships.

The Power of Transformation
Onesimus's transformation from a runaway slave to a brother in Christ highlights the transformative power of the Gospel.

Intercession for Others
Paul acts as an intercessor for Onesimus, showing the importance of advocating for others within the Christian community.

The Cost of Discipleship
Paul's imprisonment for Christ reminds us of the sacrifices involved in following Jesus and the call to remain faithful despite hardships.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does Paul's approach to Philemon challenge our understanding of authority and leadership within the church?

2. In what ways can we apply the principle of appealing on the basis of love in our daily interactions?

3. How does the transformation of Onesimus encourage us to view others through the lens of the Gospel?

4. What are some practical ways we can intercede for others in our community, as Paul did for Onesimus?

5. How can Paul's example of enduring hardship for the sake of Christ inspire us in our own walk of faith?
Connections to Other Scriptures
1 Corinthians 13
This chapter emphasizes love as the greatest virtue, aligning with Paul's appeal to Philemon on the basis of love.

Ephesians 4:1-3
Paul urges believers to live a life worthy of their calling, with humility and love, which reflects his appeal to Philemon.

Galatians 5:22-23
The fruit of the Spirit includes love, which is central to Paul's appeal.

Colossians 3:12-14
Paul encourages believers to clothe themselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

Matthew 5:44
Jesus teaches to love your enemies, which can be related to Philemon's potential feelings towards Onesimus.
A Beautiful Specimen of Christian Humility and Genuine PathosBp. Chris. Wordsworth.Philemon 1:9
A Review of Life and a Glimpse of GloryJ. S. Pearsall.Philemon 1:9
Anxieties Tell on AgeM. F. Sadler, M. A.Philemon 1:9
Christian Old AgeA. Maclaren, D. D.Philemon 1:9
Duty Enforced by Personal ConsiderationA. Maclaren, D. D.Philemon 1:9
Gentle Means of Persuading Men to be Used Rather than SevW. Attersoll.Philemon 1:9
Love More Effective than SeverityPhilemon 1:9
Paul the AgedG. T. Coster.Philemon 1:9
Reverence Due to Old AgeW. Jones, D. D.Philemon 1:9
The Aged ChristianU. R. Thomas.Philemon 1:9
The Aged MinisterJ. A. James.Philemon 1:9
The Entreaty of LoveA. Maclaren, D. D.Philemon 1:9
The Standard of AgeBp. Wm. Alexander.Philemon 1:9
Appeal by Entreaty Rather than CommandT. Croskery Philemon 1:8-11
Love's Motive-PowerW.M. Statham Philemon 1:9, 10
People
Apphia, Archippus, Aristarchus, Demas, Epaphras, Lucas, Luke, Marcus, Mark, Onesimus, Paul, Philemon, Timotheus, Timothy
Places
Colossae
Topics
Aged, Although, Ambassador, Appeal, Basis, Beg, Beseech, Christ, Entreat, Exhort, Instead, Jesus-, Love, Love's, None, Order, Paul, Prefer, Prisoner, Rather, Request, Sake, Yet, You-since
Dictionary of Bible Themes
Philemon 1:9

     5727   old age, attitudes

Philemon 1:8-9

     8202   boldness

Philemon 1:8-14

     5910   motives, examples

Philemon 1:8-16

     5524   servants, bad

Philemon 1:8-21

     5010   conscience, matters of
     7448   slavery, in NT

Library
The Epistles of the Captivity.
During his confinement in Rome, from a.d. 61 to 63, while waiting the issue of his trial on the charge of being "a mover of insurrections among all the Jews throughout the world, and a ringleader of the sect of the Nazarenes" (Acts 24:5), the aged apostle composed four Epistles, to the Colossians, Ephesians, Philemon, and Philippians. He thus turned the prison into a pulpit, sent inspiration and comfort to his distant congregations, and rendered a greater service to future ages than he could have
Philip Schaff—History of the Christian Church, Volume I

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