Neither.

a widow

Leviticus 21:7, 13, 14
A priest must not marry a woman defiled by prostitution or divorced by her husband, for the priest is holy to his God. . . .

1 Timothy 3:2, 4, 5, 11
An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, . . .

Titus 1:6
An elder must be blameless, the husband of one wife, having children who are believers and are not open to accusation of indiscretion or insubordination.

put away [heb] thrust forth

Deuteronomy 24:1-4
If a man marries a woman, but she becomes displeasing to him because he finds some indecency in her, he may write her a certificate of divorce, hand it to her, and send her away from his house. . . .