Genesis 44:31
New International Version
sees that the boy isn’t there, he will die. Your servants will bring the gray head of our father down to the grave in sorrow.

New Living Translation
If he sees that the boy is not with us, our father will die. We, your servants, will indeed be responsible for sending that grieving, white-haired man to his grave.

English Standard Version
as soon as he sees that the boy is not with us, he will die, and your servants will bring down the gray hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to Sheol.

Berean Standard Bible
sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. Then your servants will have brought the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

Berean Literal Bible
and it will come to pass when he sees that the boy is no more, then he will die. And your servants will bring down the gray hair of your servant, our father, in sorrow to Sheol.

King James Bible
It shall come to pass, when he seeth that the lad is not with us, that he will die: and thy servants shall bring down the gray hairs of thy servant our father with sorrow to the grave.

New King James Version
it will happen, when he sees that the lad is not with us, that he will die. So your servants will bring down the gray hair of your servant our father with sorrow to the grave.

New American Standard Bible
when he sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. So your servants will bring the gray hair of your servant, our father, down to Sheol in sorrow.

NASB 1995
when he sees that the lad is not with us, he will die. Thus your servants will bring the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

NASB 1977
it will come about when he sees that the lad is not with us, that he will die. Thus your servants will bring the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

Legacy Standard Bible
so it will be that when he sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. Thus your servants will bring the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

Amplified Bible
when he sees that the young man is not with us, he will die; and your servants will bring the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in [great] sorrow.

Berean Annotated Bible
sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. Then your servants will have brought the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

Christian Standard Bible
when he sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. Then your servants will have brought the gray hairs of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

Holman Christian Standard Bible
when he sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. Then your servants will have brought the gray hairs of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

American Standard Version
it will come to pass, when he seeth that the lad is not with us, that he will die: and thy servants will bring down the gray hairs of thy servant our father with sorrow to Sheol.

Contemporary English Version
that he will die if Benjamin doesn't come back with me.

English Revised Version
it shall come to pass, when he seeth that the lad is not with us, that he will die: and thy servants shall bring down the gray hairs of thy servant our father with sorrow to the grave.

GOD'S WORD® Translation
and he sees that the boy isn't [with me], he'll die. The grief would drive our gray-haired old father to his grave.

International Standard Version
when he notices that the young man hasn't come back with us, he'll die, and your servants really will have brought death to your servant, our father, along with his sad, gray hair!

NET Bible
When he sees the boy is not with us, he will die, and your servants will bring down the gray hair of your servant our father in sorrow to the grave.

New Heart English Bible
it will happen, when he sees that the boy is not with us, that he will die. Your servants will bring down the gray hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to Sheol.

Webster's Bible Translation
It shall come to pass, when he seeth that the lad is not with us, that he will die: and thy servants will bring down the gray hairs of thy servant our father, with sorrow to the grave.
Majority Text Translations
Majority Standard Bible
sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. Then your servants will have brought the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow.

World English Bible
it will happen, when he sees that the boy is no more, that he will die. Your servants will bring down the gray hairs of your servant, our father, with sorrow to Sheol.
Literal Translations
Literal Standard Version
then it has come to pass, when he sees that the youth is not, that he has died, and your servants have brought down the grey hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to Sheol;

Berean Literal Bible
and it will come to pass when he sees that the boy is no more, then he will die. And your servants will bring down the gray hair of your servant, our father, in sorrow to Sheol.

Young's Literal Translation
then it hath come to pass when he seeth that the youth is not, that he hath died, and thy servants have brought down the grey hairs of thy servant our father with sorrow to sheol;

Smith's Literal Translation
And it was when he having seen that the youth is not, and he will die: and thy servants brought down the old age of thy servant our father in grief to hades.
Catholic Translations
Douay-Rheims Bible
And he shall see that he is not with us, he will die, and thy servants shall bring down his gray hairs with sorrow unto hell.

Catholic Public Domain Version
and if he were to see that he is not with us, he would die, and your servants will lead his grey hairs down with sorrow to the grave.

New American Bible
and your servants will thus send the white head of your servant our father down to Sheol in grief.

New Revised Standard Version
when he sees that the boy is not with us, he will die; and your servants will bring down the gray hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to Sheol.
Translations from Aramaic
Lamsa Bible
It shall come to pass when he sees that the lad is not with us, he will die; and your servants shall bring down the gray hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to Sheol.

Peshitta Holy Bible Translated
And when he sees there is no boy with us, he will die, and we will bring your Servant in the old age of your Servant, our father, in wretchedness to Sheol.
OT Translations
JPS Tanakh 1917
it will come to pass, when he seeth that the lad is not with us, that he will die; and thy servants will bring down the gray hairs of thy servant our father with sorrow to the grave.

Brenton Septuagint Translation
- it shall even come to pass, when he sees the boy is not with us, that he will die, and thy servants will bring down the old age of thy servant, and our father, with sorrow to the grave.

Additional Translations ...
Audio Bible



Context
Judah Pleads for Benjamin
30So if the boy is not with us when I return to your servant, and if my father, whose life is wrapped up in the boy’s life, 31 sees that the boy is not with us, he will die. Then your servants will have brought the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow. 32Indeed, your servant guaranteed the boy’s safety to my father, saying, ‘If I do not return him to you, I will bear the guilt before you, my father, all my life.’…

Cross References
sees that the boy is not with us,

Jeremiah 31:15
This is what the LORD says: “A voice is heard in Ramah, mourning and great weeping, Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because they are no more.”

Matthew 2:18
“A voice is heard in Ramah, weeping and great mourning, Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because they are no more.”

2 Samuel 19:1-4
Then it was reported to Joab, “The king is weeping and mourning over Absalom.” / And that day’s victory was turned into mourning for all the people, because on that day they were told, “The king is grieving over his son.” / So they returned to the city quietly that day, as people steal away in humiliation after fleeing a battle. …
he will die.

2 Samuel 18:33
The king was shaken and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And as he walked, he cried out, “O my son Absalom! My son, my son Absalom! If only I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!”

2 Samuel 12:16-18
David pleaded with God for the boy. He fasted and went into his house and spent the night lying in sackcloth on the ground. / The elders of his household stood beside him to help him up from the ground, but he was unwilling and would not eat anything with them. / On the seventh day the child died. But David’s servants were afraid to tell him that the child was dead, for they said, “Look, while the child was alive, we spoke to him, and he would not listen to us. So how can we tell him the child is dead? He may even harm himself.”

1 Samuel 4:17-18
The messenger answered, “Israel has fled before the Philistines, and there has been a great slaughter among the people. Your two sons, Hophni and Phinehas, are both dead, and the ark of God has been captured.” / As soon as the ark of God was mentioned, Eli fell backward from his chair by the city gate, and being old and heavy, he broke his neck and died. And Eli had judged Israel forty years.
Then your servants will have brought the gray hair of your servant our father

Genesis 42:38
But Jacob replied, “My son will not go down there with you, for his brother is dead, and he alone is left. If any harm comes to him on your journey, you will bring my gray hair down to Sheol in sorrow.”

1 Kings 2:6
So act according to your wisdom, and do not let his gray head go down to Sheol in peace.

1 Kings 2:9
Now therefore, do not hold him guiltless, for you are a wise man. You know what you ought to do to him to bring his gray head down to Sheol in blood.”
down to Sheol in sorrow.

Genesis 37:35
All his sons and daughters tried to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. “No,” he said. “I will go down to Sheol mourning for my son.” So his father wept for him.

Psalm 116:3
The ropes of death entangled me; the anguish of Sheol overcame me; I was confronted by trouble and sorrow.

Psalm 88:3-5
For my soul is full of troubles, and my life draws near to Sheol. / I am counted among those descending to the Pit. I am like a man without strength. / I am forsaken among the dead, like the slain who lie in the grave, whom You remember no more, who are cut off from Your care.
Genesis 37:33-35
His father recognized it and said, “It is my son’s robe! A vicious animal has devoured him. Joseph has surely been torn to pieces!” / Then Jacob tore his clothes, put sackcloth around his waist, and mourned for his son many days. / All his sons and daughters tried to comfort him, but he refused to be comforted. “No,” he said. “I will go down to Sheol mourning for my son.” So his father wept for him.

Genesis 42:36-38
Their father Jacob said to them, “You have deprived me of my sons. Joseph is gone and Simeon is no more. Now you want to take Benjamin. Everything is going against me!” / Then Reuben said to his father, “You may kill my two sons if I fail to bring him back to you. Put him in my care, and I will return him.” / But Jacob replied, “My son will not go down there with you, for his brother is dead, and he alone is left. If any harm comes to him on your journey, you will bring my gray hair down to Sheol in sorrow.”

Genesis 43:8-9
And Judah said to his father Israel, “Send the boy with me, and we will go at once, so that we may live and not die—neither we, nor you, nor our children. / I will guarantee his safety. You may hold me personally responsible. If I do not bring him back and set him before you, then may I bear the guilt before you all my life.

Genesis 45:28
“Enough!” declared Israel. “My son Joseph is still alive! I will go to see him before I die.”


Treasury of Scripture

It shall come to pass, when he sees that the lad is not with us, that he will die: and your servants shall bring down the gray hairs of your servant our father with sorrow to the grave.

when he.

1 Samuel 4:17,18
And the messenger answered and said, Israel is fled before the Philistines, and there hath been also a great slaughter among the people, and thy two sons also, Hophni and Phinehas, are dead, and the ark of God is taken…

2 Corinthians 7:10
For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.

1 Thessalonians 4:13
But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.

servants shall.

Genesis 44:29
And if ye take this also from me, and mischief befall him, ye shall bring down my gray hairs with sorrow to the grave.

Genesis 37:26,27,35
And Judah said unto his brethren, What profit is it if we slay our brother, and conceal his blood? …

1 Samuel 22:22
And David said unto Abiathar, I knew it that day, when Doeg the Edomite was there, that he would surely tell Saul: I have occasioned the death of all the persons of thy father's house.

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Genesis 44
1. Joseph's policy to stay his brothers.
6. The silver cup is found in Benjamin's sack.
14. They are brought before Joseph.
18. Judah's humble supplication to Joseph.












sees that the boy is not with us
This phrase refers to Jacob's anticipated reaction if Benjamin does not return with his brothers from Egypt. Benjamin, the youngest son of Jacob and Rachel, holds a special place in Jacob's heart, especially after the presumed death of Joseph. The brothers' journey to Egypt was initially to buy grain during a famine, but Joseph, now a powerful Egyptian official, demanded Benjamin's presence. This reflects the deep familial bonds and the importance of lineage in ancient Israelite culture.

he will die
Jacob's life is closely tied to the well-being of his sons, particularly Benjamin. The emotional weight of losing another son would be unbearable for him. This highlights the patriarchal structure of the family and the significance of the father's role. The potential death of Jacob due to grief underscores the severe emotional and social consequences of family loss in ancient times.

Then your servants will have brought the gray hair of your servant our father
The mention of "gray hair" symbolizes old age and wisdom, but also vulnerability. In ancient Near Eastern culture, elders were respected and their well-being was a family responsibility. The phrase "your servant" shows humility and respect towards Joseph, acknowledging his authority. This reflects the hierarchical social structures and the importance of family honor.

down to Sheol in sorrow
Sheol is the Hebrew term for the grave or the abode of the dead, often depicted as a place of darkness and silence. It reflects the ancient Israelite understanding of the afterlife, which was less developed than later Jewish and Christian concepts. The sorrow mentioned here is profound, indicating a life overshadowed by grief. This phrase connects to the broader biblical theme of the consequences of sin and the hope for redemption, as seen in the eventual reconciliation of Joseph and his brothers, which prefigures the redemptive work of Christ.

Persons / Places / Events
1. Judah
One of the twelve sons of Jacob, Judah plays a pivotal role in this account. He steps forward to plead with Joseph, demonstrating leadership and responsibility for his brother Benjamin.

2. Jacob (Israel)
The father of the twelve tribes of Israel, Jacob is deeply concerned about the welfare of his sons, particularly Benjamin, after losing Joseph years earlier.

3. Joseph
Now a powerful figure in Egypt, Joseph tests his brothers to see if they have changed since they sold him into slavery.

4. Benjamin
The youngest son of Jacob, Benjamin is central to the account as his presence in Egypt is the cause of Jacob's deep anxiety.

5. Egypt
The setting of this account, where Joseph has risen to power and where his brothers have come to buy grain during a famine.
Teaching Points
The Weight of Responsibility
Judah's willingness to take responsibility for Benjamin highlights the importance of accountability and leadership within a family or community.

The Power of Repentance
The brothers' change of heart since selling Joseph into slavery demonstrates the transformative power of repentance and redemption.

The Role of Testing in Spiritual Growth
Joseph's testing of his brothers can be seen as a parallel to how God tests our faith to refine and strengthen us.

The Importance of Family Unity
The account underscores the significance of family unity and reconciliation, which is a recurring theme throughout the Bible.

Trusting God's Sovereignty
Despite the trials and uncertainties, the account encourages believers to trust in God's sovereign plan, even when it is not immediately apparent.
Bible Study Questions and Answers
1. What is the meaning of Genesis 44:31?

2. How does Genesis 44:31 illustrate the importance of family responsibility and unity?

3. What consequences arise from failing to protect loved ones, as seen in Genesis 44:31?

4. How does Genesis 44:31 connect with the commandment to honor your parents?

5. How can we apply Judah's sense of responsibility to our family relationships today?

6. What does Genesis 44:31 teach about the impact of our actions on others?

7. How does Genesis 44:31 reflect the importance of family responsibility in biblical times?

8. What theological implications arise from Judah's plea in Genesis 44:31?

9. How does Genesis 44:31 illustrate the theme of sacrifice and redemption?

10. What are the top 10 Lessons from Genesis 44?

11. What does Rachel weeping for her children signify?

12. (Genesis 37:34-35) Do the customs of mourning described align with verifiable ancient practices, or do they hint at anachronistic traditions introduced later?

13. Why does God allow genocides to happen, including those commanded in the Bible (Numbers 31:17-18)?

14. What is the Bible's perspective on aging?
What Does Genesis 44:31 Mean
Setting

Joseph’s silver cup has just been discovered in Benjamin’s sack (Genesis 44:1-13). The brothers are hauled back to Joseph, and Judah steps forward to plead. Remember, he had pledged himself as surety for Benjamin (Genesis 43:8-9). Verse 31 lands in the middle of his impassioned speech, revealing how deeply the family drama has spiraled since Joseph’s earlier “death” (Genesis 37:31-35).


When he sees

• “When he sees” refers to Jacob, waiting anxiously in Canaan.

• Judah pictures the very moment the old patriarch scans the returning caravan and counts heads—Joseph gone, Simeon only recently restored (Genesis 42:24), and now Benjamin missing.

• Cross reference: Genesis 44:34 shows Judah still thinking about what Jacob will see and feel.


The boy is not with us

• Benjamin is repeatedly called “the boy” (Genesis 44:20, 30). Although grown, he remains Jacob’s youngest, treasured son—the last living link with Rachel after Joseph’s presumed demise.

• Losing Benjamin would feel like losing Rachel a second time and Joseph all over again (Genesis 42:4).

• This phrase underscores the family’s accountability: “with us” means under their care. Failure here equals betrayal of both father and vow.


He will die

• Judah speaks literally. The grief that nearly destroyed Jacob when Joseph disappeared (Genesis 37:35) would now finish him.

• The statement also reflects ancient recognition of how intense sorrow can cut life short (2 Samuel 18:33; Psalm 31:10).

• It is not melodrama but a sober reading of Jacob’s frailty (Genesis 47:9).


Then your servants will have brought the gray hair of your servant our father down to Sheol in sorrow

• “Gray hair” signals advanced age and dignity (Proverbs 16:31).

• “Sheol” is the abode of the dead—Judah envisions Jacob descending there consumed by mourning. Similar language appears in Genesis 42:38.

• Judah accepts responsibility: “your servants will have brought.” He owns the potential consequence of failing his father.

• The phrase ties grief, dishonor, and death into one stark image, motivating Judah’s offer to stay in Egypt as a substitute slave (Genesis 44:32-33).


Gospel echoes

• Judah’s self-substitution foreshadows the Greater Son who would offer Himself for His brothers (John 15:13; 2 Corinthians 5:21).

• The passage highlights covenant faithfulness—keeping promises made to the father (Genesis 43:9) even at personal cost.

• It also illustrates genuine repentance; the brothers who once sold Joseph now risk everything to save Benjamin (Genesis 50:20).


summary

Genesis 44:31 shows Judah picturing the devastating impact Benjamin’s loss would have on Jacob: a father’s heart would break, and grief would usher him to the grave. The verse underscores filial responsibility, the high value of a single life, and the weight of keeping one’s word. Ultimately, Judah’s plea points ahead to a greater Substitute who would give His life to spare His brothers from death.

Parallel Commentaries ...


Hebrew
when he sees
כִּרְאוֹת֛וֹ (kir·’ō·w·ṯōw)
Preposition-k | Verb - Qal - Infinitive construct | third person masculine singular
Strong's 7200: To see

that
כִּי־ (kî-)
Conjunction
Strong's 3588: A relative conjunction

the boy
הַנַּ֖עַר (han·na·‘ar)
Article | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 5288: A boy, lad, youth, retainer

[is] not [with us],
אֵ֥ין (’ên)
Adverb
Strong's 369: A non-entity, a negative particle

he will die.
וָמֵ֑ת (wā·mêṯ)
Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Conjunctive perfect - third person masculine singular
Strong's 4191: To die, to kill

Then your servants
עֲבָדֶ֜יךָ (‘ă·ḇā·ḏe·ḵā)
Noun - masculine plural construct | second person masculine singular
Strong's 5650: Slave, servant

will have brought the gray hair
שֵׂיבַ֨ת (śê·ḇaṯ)
Noun - feminine singular construct
Strong's 7872: Hoary head, old age

of your servant
עַבְדְּךָ֥ (‘aḇ·də·ḵā)
Noun - masculine singular construct | second person masculine singular
Strong's 5650: Slave, servant

our father
אָבִ֛ינוּ (’ā·ḇî·nū)
Noun - masculine singular construct | first person common plural
Strong's 1: Father

down
וְהוֹרִ֨ידוּ (wə·hō·w·rî·ḏū)
Conjunctive waw | Verb - Hifil - Conjunctive perfect - third person common plural
Strong's 3381: To come or go down, descend

to Sheol
שְׁאֹֽלָה׃ (šə·’ō·lāh)
Noun - common singular | third person feminine singular
Strong's 7585: Underworld (place to which people descend at death)

in sorrow.
בְּיָג֖וֹן (bə·yā·ḡō·wn)
Preposition-b | Noun - masculine singular
Strong's 3015: Grief, sorrow


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